What a Woman Wants - Don't Make This Assumption

It's kind of funny to me how when guys go looking for information on what a woman wants, they kind of expect to find one answer that is going to be applied to ALL women. Well, just in case you did not already know it, not all women are alike. So, the idea that there is one answer for the question, what do women want, is flawed right from the get go. Of course, that does not stop guys for looking for that one all-encompassing answer.

If you really want to know what a woman wants, then the best way is to ask her. Yep, it's that simple. Kind of. Most of the time, you don't want to ask direct questions, but more indirect ones that lead her to telling you the truth about what she likes, what turns her on, etc. If you are too direct, then chances are you will get an answer that sounds good, but is not exactly the truth.
For example, if you ask a woman straight out what kind of man she likes, she will probably give you the answer that sounds the best... but is not really the kind of guy that she actually dates. Like, when a woman says that she wants a nice guy, yet her track record shows that she really only dates bad boys. That kind of thing.
You don't want to make the assumption, though, that all women are going to want the same things. I grew up in a very diverse city. And by diverse, I mean... really diverse. People from all different backgrounds, races, income classes and religions. So, I knew right away that not all women want the same things in life or in the guys that they date.
If you are ever going to really get good with women, then you have to learn not to go by assumptions. You have to learn that what you really need to do is to ask the right questions when you talk to a woman. You also need to learn more than one way to build attraction with a woman, or else you are only going to be able to attract one type and not be able to get a taste of the variety that is out there.
It might be a nice dream like idea to want to have one answer that applies to all women, but that is about as likely as me winning the lottery tomorrow. And I don't even play.
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Chris Tyler has published 304 articles. Article submitted on November 27, 2011. Word count: 413